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Asking them what they want as a positive outcome/reward, you may want or not want to do what they ask for/desire. Example: if you come to the SMM workshop (criteria), then I will sign the divorce papers the day after the workshop. Why sign? It’s the “hill (criteria) they are willing to die on”.

from The Definitive Guide to Boundaries in Marriage